The Backyard Plate That Never Gets Old: Ribeye, Loaded Mash & Cold Tea
A proper Southern BBQ spread — perfectly crusted ribeye, creamy loaded mashed potatoes piled with bacon and cheddar, and a tall glass of unsweetened iced tea to wash it all down. This is the plate my family asks for…

The best meals aren't measured by perfection — they're measured by the memories made around the table.
There's a plate that shows up at every important moment in my family's life — birthdays, end-of-school cookouts, those warm Friday evenings in Tampa when the sun is still high at six o'clock and nobody wants to be inside. It's a ribeye off the grill, a bowl of mashed potatoes loaded with bacon, cheddar, and sour cream, and a sweating glass of unsweetened iced tea. Simple as that. My grandmother Hellon didn't need a fancy menu to make people feel loved. My mother Barbara didn't either. And I don't either. What I do need is a hot grill, good meat, and enough time to do it right. This is that meal — the one that brings everybody to the table without a single complaint.
Why This Plate Works
I've cooked this combination more times than I can count, and what strikes me every time is how honest it is. There's no hiding behind complicated sauces or clever plating. The ribeye either has a crust or it doesn't. The mash is either silky or it's not. Every element on this plate tells the truth about how it was made. That's what I love about grilling — the fire doesn't lie. You get out what you put in. And when you put in a well-marbled ribeye, seasoned with nothing but kosher salt and black pepper, and you let the grate do its work without fussing, you get something that tastes like it belongs on a restaurant menu. The loaded mash is the same story: butter, cheddar, bacon, sour cream — nothing exotic, just each ingredient doing its job at full volume.

45 minutes, and you’re ready to cook.
This meal has a few moving parts happening at the same time — tea brewing, bacon crisping, potatoes boiling, grill preheating. Here's how to keep it all on track.
- Gather EquipmentGather all equipment needed: large pot for potatoes, skillet for bacon, grill, cutting board, chef's knife, measuring cups and spoons, paper towels, large mixing bowl, potato masher, wooden spoon, meat thermometer, tongs, and serving glasses.
- Preheat Grill and Boil WaterFill a kettle or large pot with 8 cups of water and bring to a boil over high heat. You will use this for both the tea and the potatoes. Set the grill to preheat to medium-high heat (around 400–450°F) — this will be ready when you need it for the steaks.
- Prepare the Russet PotatoesPeel the russet potatoes and cut into quarters. Place in a large pot and cover with cold salted water. Set aside until ready to cook.5 min
- Cook the BaconPlace bacon slices in a skillet over medium heat. Cook until crispy, about 8–10 minutes. Transfer to a paper towel-lined plate to cool, then crumble into bite-sized pieces. Set aside in a prep bowl.9 min
- Brew the Black TeaOnce the water reaches a boil, add ½ cup of black tea (loose leaf or tea bags). Steep for 5–7 minutes until desired strength. Remove tea leaves or bags and pour the tea into a container to cool to room temperature. Set aside.7 min
- Prepare the Ribeye SteaksPat the ribeye steaks dry with paper towels. Season both sides generously with 1 teaspoon of the kosher salt and ½ teaspoon of the black pepper. Lightly brush both sides with olive oil. Set on a plate near the grill.3 min
- Measure Dairy and CheeseMeasure out ¼ cup whole milk, 3 tablespoons butter, and ½ cup shredded cheddar cheese into separate small bowls. Set near the stove.2 min
- Measure Sour Cream and Remaining SpicesMeasure out 2 tablespoons sour cream into a small bowl. Measure the remaining ½ teaspoon kosher salt and ¼ teaspoon black pepper into a small dish. Set both near the stove.1 min
- Chop the Fresh ChivesFinely chop the fresh chives to yield about 2 tablespoons. Place in a small bowl and set aside for garnish.2 min
- Stage IngredientsArrange all prepped ingredients near the stove and grill in cooking order: potatoes and salted water in the large pot, bacon in a bowl, cooled tea in a pitcher, steaks on a plate near the grill, milk and butter in bowls, cheddar cheese in a bowl, sour cream in a bowl, remaining salt and pepper in a dish, and fresh chives in a bowl. Ensure ice is accessible for serving the tea.
Tools for this recipe.
Nothing exotic needed here — just the tools that let you do the job right. The instant-read thermometer is the one I'd never skip on a ribeye.
- large pot
- skillet
- grill
- cutting board
- chef's knife
- measuring cups
- measuring spoons
- large mixing bowl
- potato masher
- wooden spoon
- instant-read thermometer
- tongs
Building the Loaded Mash Right
The mash on this plate isn't an afterthought — it's a full co-star. Russet potatoes are the right call here: they're starchy and fluffy, which means they absorb butter and milk beautifully without turning gluey. The key move is warming your butter and milk before they go in. Cold fat hits hot starch and seizes it up, giving you a dense, gummy result instead of the cloud-like mash you're after. Once the potatoes are drained and back in the pot, add the warm butter and milk, mash to your preferred texture, then pull the pot off the heat before folding in the cheddar, bacon, and sour cream. Off the heat matters — you want the cheese to melt gently into the mash, not break and go greasy. Finish with fresh chives and the remaining salt and pepper, taste it, and adjust. That's your mash.
Unsweetened black tea is the quiet MVP of this plate — its natural bitterness cuts through the richness of ribeye, butter, and cheddar in a way that keeps every bite tasting fresh.
Olive OilBlack Tea
Score 100Shared aroma compounds and complementary structure.

A Word on the Numbers
I'll be straight with you: this is a treat-yourself plate, not a Tuesday night regular. The loaded mash — butter, cheddar, bacon, sour cream — is where most of the richness lives, and it's substantial. That said, the russet potatoes quietly earn their keep: they bring a serious amount of fiber and potassium that most people don't get enough of in a day, which is a genuine bright spot on an otherwise indulgent plate. If you want to lighten it up without losing the spirit of the dish, swap half the butter in the mash for plain Greek yogurt. You keep the creaminess and tang, and you pull back on the fat and salt meaningfully. Or just make it as written and enjoy every bite — this is a backyard BBQ, not a diet plan.
About That Iced Tea
I grew up with sweet tea on the table, but for a plate this rich — ribeye, butter, cheddar, bacon — unsweetened is the move. Here's the thing most people don't realize: a good unsweetened black tea has a natural, pleasant bitterness that actively cuts through fat. Every sip resets your palate, so the next bite of steak or loaded mash tastes just as good as the first. It's the same reason a squeeze of lemon works on fried food. The tea isn't just a drink alongside the meal — it's doing real work. Brew it strong, let it cool completely, pour it over plenty of ice, and don't add a drop of sugar. Let the tea be what it is. Your taste buds will thank you.
Substitutions that still taste like the recipe.
Working with what you have? These swaps keep the spirit of the plate intact while giving you some flexibility.
- ground pork
Shares maillard compounds with ribeye steak
- ground beef
Shares maillard compounds with ribeye steak
- skirt steak↓ fatty
Shares maillard compounds with ribeye steak — less fatty
- andouille sausage↑ spicy
Shares pyrazine compounds with bacon — more spicy
- prosciutto↓ fatty
Shares pyrazine compounds with bacon — less fatty
- pancetta
Shares pyrazine compounds with bacon
- gruyere cheese
Shares ester compounds with cheddar cheese
- pecorino cheese
Shares ester compounds with cheddar cheese
- parmesan cheese
Shares ester compounds with cheddar cheese
- creme fraiche
Shares lactone compounds with sour cream
- buttermilk
Shares acid compounds with sour cream
- yogurt
Shares acid compounds with sour cream
- matcha
Shares phenolic compounds with black tea
- green tea
Shares phenolic compounds with black tea
- oolong
Shares phenolic compounds with black tea
Common questions
How long should I let the ribeye rest before cutting?
Can I make the mashed potatoes ahead of time?
What temperature should I pull the steak for medium-rare?
Can I dry-brine the steak overnight?
Do I need to use a charcoal grill or will gas work?
This is the plate I come back to every summer, and I don't think that's ever going to change. There's something about a properly grilled ribeye next to a bowl of loaded mash — the kind that's still steaming when it hits the table — that just feels right. It's the kind of food that makes people stop mid-conversation and just eat. My kids scrape the bowl. My wife asks for seconds on the mash. And I'm already thinking about the next time I get to fire it up. That's the whole point, really. Food is love made visible, and this plate says it loud and clear. Fire up something good today.
Summer BBQ: Grilled Steak with Loaded Mashed Potatoes & Unsweetened Tea
Ingredients
- 2 Ribeye Steak
- 1½ tsp Kosher Salt
- ¾ tsp Black Pepper
- 2 tbsp Olive Oil
- 1 lb Russet Potatoes
- ¼ cup Whole Milk
- 3 tbsp Butter
- ½ cup Cheddar Cheese
- 4 slice Bacon
- 2 tbsp Sour Cream
- 2 tbsp Fresh Chives
- ½ cup Black Tea
- 8 cup Water
- Ice (as needed)
Instructions
- 1.Start brewing the tea: Bring 8 cups of water to a boil. Add black tea (loose leaf or tea bags) and let steep for 5-7 minutes until desired strength. Remove tea leaves/bags and let cool to room temperature.
- 2.While tea steeps, cook the bacon in a skillet over medium heat until crispy. Remove to a paper towel-lined plate and crumble once cooled. Set aside.
- 3.Place peeled and quartered potatoes in a large pot and cover with cold salted water. Bring to a boil over high heat.
- 4.Reduce heat to medium and simmer potatoes until fork-tender, about 12-15 minutes.
- 5.Preheat your grill to medium-high heat (around 400-450°F) while potatoes cook.
- 6.Pat your steaks dry with paper towels. Season both sides generously with 1 tsp of the kosher salt and 0.5 tsp of the black pepper. Lightly brush both sides with olive oil.
- …and 6 more steps
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